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Dear Maleva,
I am going to Bs As for the first time in December and am looking
forward to my first experiences of close-embrace style. I am a very
busty woman and am quite timid about how that is going to affect
my ability to dance, my comfort level with strangers, etc. Do you
have any words of advice on how not to be shy about this?
-Tango or Bust
Dear Tango or Bust,
They say in Argentina the women
are not afraid to put their chest on the man. Which means, they
never collapse inside themselves. Always keep your lower ribs lifted
when you dance. You might feel like you're sticking your bosom out
too much at first if you're not used to it, but that's good tango
posture (and good posture for life too!). Don't let your shoulders
slouch forward - roll them back and down so your chest is open.
If you're really busty your face may not touch your partner's face;
that's fine, don't round forward to make face contact. Having a
large chest won't affect your ability to dance, but your connection
might feel a little different that it does for the less-endowed
ladies.
You can practice your posture
by going up to a wall and standing facing it, with your toes 3-4
inches away. Bring your weight forward over the balls of your feet
so your chest comes in contact with the wall. Make sure your chest
is lifted so your bust is against the wall and the lower ribs either
touch the wall or at least are towards the wall. Relax here, relax
your lower back muscles so your butt isn't sticking out. Turn your
head to the left so your face is not smooshed into the wall and
your neck is relaxed. Relax your shoulders back and down. Keep your
stomach strong so you don't collapse your belly into the wall.
As for comfort level, I think
everyone is a little self-conscious of their body as they get used
to dancing pressed against someone else, regardless of their size
or shape. The more you do it the less you think about it, and for
better or worse, pretty soon you'll have no personal bubble left
whatsoever...
Have fun in Buenos Aires and for
god's sake don't try and hide them sister, they might get you extra
dances!
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Dear Maleva,
My question relates to the tango festival classes. I have noticed
that in general the classes are divided into beginner, intermediate
and advanced. Of course, some classes are broken down even more
such as advanced beginner, intermediate-advanced, etc. How
does one decide what level he/she should take? Is there a some kind
of magic formula or reference guide most tango students can hang
a tango shoe on? As you know, most
students think they are better than they really are. So, they sign
up one level higher than they should and they get frustrated. Others
sign up at a lower level than their true skill level resulting in
being bored.
The number of years or months
a student has been dancing or taking classes do not seem to help
either. The quality and frequency of classes/milongas are too varied
to really assess one's true skill level. Any concrete suggestions
as to how to gauge one's true skill level especially for signing
up for classes at tango festivals?
Thank you.
Dear Reader,
No, unfortunately there
is no magic formula and yes, it is hard to know what level class
to take sometimes, especially because 'intermediate' with one teacher
may be much harder than 'intermediate' with another teacher. Finding
your level I think is not so much a question of how long you've
taken classes, but more how much you've been out dancing at milongas.
The people who have been dancing for a year or less, but go out
to milongas and practicas all the time are always much much better
than people who've taken classes for years but never go out. If
you are unsure then intermediate level is usually a pretty safe
middle ground, and people of all levels can usually follow the material
reasonably well and get something out of it. How long have you been
dancing and is your community large? Do you get a chance to go out
a lot?
Regardless of what level
you are however, I often find the most interesting classes with
a teacher are actually the beginner/Adv. Beginner level ones. This
is where they usually go over in depth the fundamental technique
of their style and philosophy behind it. In more advanced classes
the material is usually more step-oriented, which is great too if
that's what you want to learn. But you may not be able to do the
step well if you don't understand the basic technique they are using
for their movement in the step, especially if it the teachers dance
a different style of tango than what you are used to.
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Dear Maleva,
I have found that after following for hours and hours my hips, especially
my right hip, get tight. Do you have any suggestions for stretches
or other exercises that could help with this problem?
Thanks!
Dear Reader,
There is one exercise that I personally
really like for opening the hip joints and stretching them out:
Stand on your left leg (either
in bare feet or with flat shoes) and grasp the ankle of your right
leg with your left hand. Place the right ankle across your left
leg just above the knee. Your legs are now in the shape of a number
four, like this:
l\
l \
l__\
l
l
Keep your left hand on your right
ankle and put your right hand on the right knee that is sticking
out at an angle. Slowly bend forward at the waist and at the time
bend the left leg that you are standing on, as if you are about
to sit in a chair. At this point you should begin to feel the stretch
in the hip joint. Go as deep as you can, hold, and then repeat with
the other leg. (This is also a great exercise for balance!)
I hope this helps!
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